I'm writing this 15 minutes after we finished a conversation led by Andy Dunn and a few dozen Hampton members.
For those of you who don't know who Dunn is, here's a brief background:
The majority of Dunn's conversation was about his story and how to balance mental health while running a startup. It was incredibly helpful. I'll write about it soon.
But, there was one thing that Dunn spoke about that I wanted to quickly get on paper: his experience working with Doug McMillon, CEO of Walmart.
Dunn talked about what made McMillon special and he narrowed it down to two things: his ability to listen during meetings.
"Doug is a magician," Dunn said, "his communication skills are outrageous."
Dunn went on to say that when you were talking to McMillon, he made you feel you were the only one in the room. Strong eye contact with zero distractions. "He zoned in when someone was talking," Dunn said.
Often during the first part of a meeting, McMillon wouldn't speak. And when he did it was to just ask a question. "Why do you think this is true" or "what makes you feel that way?" McMillon used the Socratic method, according to Dunn.
Sometimes Dunn thought McMillion already had an opinion on what decision he was going to make with a problem. Still, he'd ask questions. This brings us to the second thing he did well: creating alignment.
After asking questions McMillion made sure everyone was aligned with the final decision, whether he convinced them his decision was the right one or if it was a disagree and commit situation.
"It was like nothing I had ever seen," Dunn said. "He made people feel heard. I had never seen anything like that."
Another point: McMillion sent detail notes on his employee's decks or presentations. McMillion asked meeting presenters to submit their slides in advance so he could read them. After the meeting, McMillion gave the presenter thoughtful notes on each slide, showing them he understood their perspective and cared.
"Whereas when I ran Bonobos," Dunn said, "I wouldn’t even look at the deck until the meeting. And I never gave notes."
As founders and business owners, we’re so busy and don’t have time. But McMillion taught Dunn to recognize that when your employees spend weeks on a project, showing respect by reviewing their work before a meeting means a more productive conversation and loyalty.
And finally, Dunn mentioned Marc Lore, founder of Jet.com. Dunn said Lore is one of the best founders he had ever worked with. When I asked why, Dunn said the following:
“He’s insane! His ideas have no ceiling. He explains his amazing ideas and they're crazy. But he does such a good job at making you believe he can do it! He has a three-store restaurant chain and thinks it’ll be a $100 billion dollar company. And when he explains it, you believe it! and he's kind when he does it."
So, there you have it. Some of my takeaways from talking with Andy Dunn, founder of Bonobos.
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